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Glen Cooper's avatar

I loved this. Thank you, George. I tried to be the kind of dad to my kids as you describe yours, and they became well-adjusted, critically examining, good citizens—of both Cities. I grew up in a home with judgment, suspicion, and abuse, and I decided that would end with me. I love the obedience/gratitude analogy that you draw. Lately I’ve been thinking about the obedience/therapy analogy that early Christians held, and that still is central to the Eastern Church. I think these analogies harmonize.

George B. Handley's avatar

Thanks, Glen! What a kind comment and what an important pivot you made. I feel very grateful that my Dad made that pivot away from some of the ways he was raised.

Marcy Matheson's avatar

I really appreciate this perspective of obedience. It resonates deeply with me and fills me with….yes…gratitude. Thanks for writing and sharing.

Lydia Theobald's avatar

Beautiful as always. Your dad’s example brought tears to my eyes.